skyofsolarstardust asked: Hi, new follower to your blog. Just wondering, who are your Tumblr favs? I completely adore your blog style :P
Thank you :) most of the time I find photos on weheartit but blogs like the princessphotodiary , idreamweddings and marrymeagain are super cute! xx
slidingslowly asked: I saw your site and thought you were just so lovely. Maybe you would want to talk? Get to know me, maybe we have some things in common. Im interested in knowing more. Well i hope you have a good day and if you want to chat let me know. Thanks.
Thanks, hi and have a good day too
Anonymous asked: as well, i finished therapy in november, but i think i should go back. i didn't tell them about my bad thoughts. i think about suicide a lot, but don't think i'd actually do it. as well, i have severe trust issues because of my past, and didn't want to talk about that, but now i sort of do. do you think i should go back to therapy? i do not want to seem weak.
I think going back to therapy sounds like a brilliant idea, it’s worth it to make sure that you get the help you need and deserve. In my opinion it doesn’t at all make you seem weak, it makes you seem strong and brave that you’re admitting that you need help and you’re not afraid to go get it! That’s definitely something to admire :)
Anonymous asked: this is the girl who broke up with her bf twice. i'd like to say thanks for answering my question. i wrote to other advice blogs with no responses. this second guy flirts with other girls. he is younger than i am. he called another girl sweetie and it went right through me. i don't know why i feel this way when i am taken. i don't know what i want, and i know it isn't fair to my bf, but when we break up he whines to me and begs for me back, saying he is nothing without me, and then i feel bad...
You’re welcome :) even if this second guy isn’t the right guy for you, the fact you have feelings for someone else just shows that things aren’t working out with your boyfriend. Be strong! :) Your boyfriend may whine and beg for you back and say he’s nothing without you, it’ll be hard at first but in the long run it’ll be better for him, he can move on and be with someone who feels the same and allow you to be with someone that you want to be with
Anonymous asked: Thanks for the advise. I have spoken to some people and I am getting help to get over the depression and self-harming. Hopefully it'll all work out :)
You should be really proud of yourself, it’s pretty hard to admit when you need help. You’re really brave. Good luck with everything, you deserve to be happy, don’t forget that
Anonymous asked: Can you help me? I recently told my best friend I had feelings for her and been going out for nearly a month and now I feel it was a mistake. I still want to be with her but I'm going through some stuff (self harm and depression) and I don't know how to tell her without her leaving my life completely and without making an awkward situation? I really appreciate any help you can give me.
Course I can, don’t let your self harm and depression make you think that something special with your bestfriend that could really go places was a mistake. You want to be with her and that says it all :) Are you doing anything to help with your self harm and depression? Have you spoken to someone? Take action, it’ll make you feel better, don’t let the present get in the way of your future. She’s supposed to be your bestfriend and girlfriend, if she really loved and cared about you then telling her definitely wouldn’t make her leave your life at all. Just be honest with her about how you’ve been feeling and get the necessary help and show her that you’re trying to get better
soulaire asked: Ive recently started hooking up with my ex but then i was at my best friends house and he told me he really liked me so without thinking i hu with him too now every time i go over it turns into a hookup but at the same time Im still hu with my ex at school i realize I'm playing them both and i feel terrible i never meant for it to get to this... help? btw my friend knows i still have feelings for my ex but my ex has no idea about me liking my friend too
So many girls end up hooking up with an ex but it’s never a good idea really, don’t forget the reasons the two of you broke up. An ex is an ex for a reason. You have to decide who you’d rather be with, your bestfriend really likes you whereas your ex could just be interested in a hook up only thing. Personally, I’d move forward and pick the bestfriend and end things with the ex but it’s entirely up to you, just as long as you stop with one of them at least because it is unfair to lead them both on
Anonymous asked: Hi :) so this guy has been showing some signs of liking me...I think and because of that I've started liking him, it started by him tapping my shoulder and he did this twice but he kept walking after he did this, and then he said hi to me but like in the weird I like u kinda way and I just feel like he try's to get my attention but I hope it's not in my mind, b4 this we were never really friends but we knew each other cuz its a small school, how can I know if he likes me? What do u think?
Aw well that sounds like a good start to me! When he says hi talk to him and have a conversation, he’ll feel more comfortable once he knows you more and he’ll let you know if he likes you. If a guy really likes you and wants you then he’ll make it happen :)
Anonymous asked: im 14,i have 2 friends, im tired of being the third wheel of my group friends, im always the second choice, no one ask me to hang out, if i want to hang out i have to invite ppl to make sure im included.. im tired of all :(dont tell me to talk with them bc they wouldnt understand, please ADVISE ME<3
Being the third wheel is horrible, I felt like that a lot of my time in primary school. If you don’t want to talk to them about it then I’d advise that you find new people to hang around with and make friends with them, it doesn’t sound your friends are true friends because if they were then they wouldn’t be making you feel so left out
malikmmk asked: Wanna help me with a situation I'm confused about? Pretty pleease?
Of course I will :) ask away xx
Anonymous asked: plz reply to me my sister is so pretty omfg insanely pretty shes 3 years older then me but were still really close like best friends and sisters too but i feel just so sad all the time she gets all the guys everywhere and im just the gross one like shes perfect i wish i could of been my sister somtimes=( when im with her no one notices me i feel really bad for being jealose shes allways sweet to me and helps me with anything how can i stop this feeling i want to be a good sister =(
Aww you are a good sister, it’s jealousy in a good way because you admire her and want to be like her. What you need to realise is everyone has their flaws, just because you don’t think you’re pretty and perfect doesn’t mean that you’re not. It just means you lack confidence in who you are. Stop comparing yourself to others and start to focus on the good things about yourself :) Everyone is different and everyone has special qualities
featherandleaf asked: Hi. There's this guy that I've been friends with since college. It was only last year that we started to see each other differently. We went out. We held hands and talked but that's all. We never really admitted liking each other. But we both know that there is something special happening. Then we suddenly stopped texting bcoz his # doesnt work anymore. I dunno what happened. Then last thu, I got his new #, I texted him, he asked who I was. When I told him it's me, he didnt reply :( I like him.
He sounds like a complete idiot! I know it’s horrible because you like him but you definitely need to move on. If he wanted to talk to you then he would and he woulda stayed in contact with you when his number didn’t work. The fact he ignored your text when you said who you were just shows that he’s a complete idiot who obviously didn’t realise how lucky he was to get to go out and spend time with you. Try and move on and allow yourself to fall for someone who deserves your time and love